The Toxic Self
So last night I dialogued with one of my closest friends about various things and we eventually bridged into some topics that really kindled my mental fire. A mutual friend of ours had posted a rather disparaging link to an article about China’s economic concerns and we were both discouraged by how few people took an interest in it. My friend proceeded to text me and ask my opinion about why more people in our age bracket don’t care about substantive things and my response was simple: ‘nobody cares about things outside of what immediately affects them”.
From there the conversation evolved into how people perceive information in the first place. She made a very poignant point: “they want to be all knowing, without knowing anything”, to which I responded “no one wants the burden of knowledge”. Knowledge carries weight, it occupies space and time, just not in this dimension. (I’m sure there are a bevy of ontologically bent philosophers that would spend time trying to unravel the mysteries of mind-body paradox at this point, but I’m going to leave that up to the readers). Knowledge directly affects this dimension in that it forces the knower to make a decision; it dictates how one will proceed from that point forward. It dominates the realm of causality because by knowing something, a person will react in a number of ways. Most importantly, however, knowledge affects this realm by heaping responsibility on the knower. If you become aware or enlightened to something, it becomes imperative that you act upon it.
From this point, Kira then asks me a question that will bring me to my ultimate points tonight. She asked, “Is that why you get frustrated, because you know so much?” Her question was in response to my explanation about people claiming to cherish the truth but really don’t and that most don’t want the responsibility. Here is where I truly launched into the nuts and bolts of my ideologies as they stand in 2012.
The burden of knowledge or information is that the end result is futility. Now this statement in and of itself would take me many posts to fully explain, however, I will attempt an abridged version. “The wise man admits that he knows nothing”, a derivation of a quote from Socrates in which he explains that he knows no more than another man. In Ecclesiastes 2:21, Qoheleth (Hebrew for teacher) who is believed to be Solomon, explains how working and seeking wisdom ends up becoming vanity. A man may labor day and night for his entire life, only to die and pass on his legacy to someone who has not worked for it. I take it a step further, someone will labor day and night for their entire life, only to see how their wisdom becomes obsolete in time. These things we discover, these ephemeral bursts of understanding, point us inevitably to my doctrine of futility. Furthermore, as we look at the complexities of human society, we see manipulative governments feeding their populous blatant lies. With imaginary constructs like race and ethnicity being pandered as concrete truths and religious factions going to war over idiosyncratic interpretations you begin to see how most human information is simply pointless.
The fact of the matter is, an overwhelming majority of what we know is futile. This is not a bad thing though because when you embrace the futility of frivolous information, you begin entering the waters of substantive thought. In the futility, in the very throes of pointlessness, the truly wise man or woman finds knowledge and more importantly implementations that benefit humankind outside of personal gain or personal self promotion. Lets face it, politics, organized religion, racial constructs? These were all tools used to force the will of one group over another. Whether an oppressive oligarchy or peace keepers simply trying to restore order, the implementation of many human normalities were paraded around as truth, but were merely fragments of it.
Any time one’s self plays a pivotal part in the attaining of information, digesting of information, or the promulgation of information, that packet of data will ultimately be futile. Why? Because the self finds ways the warp data for the sake of profit. The self is a pure opportunist whose goals if left unchecked will always boil down to self promotion. So, what is the self? Many of us are familiar with Freudian psychology which uses the id, ego, and super ego. The ego in his earliest teachings was loosely correlated with the self and the goal of this particular emanation was to please the instinctual man in the most realistic of ways, favoring things that will bring benefit rather than those that will bring grief. It is a sensical function whose attempts to maximize happiness are very reasonable. However, the problem with the self is that it peers through lenses which are are not multilateral, therefore giving way to what we classically call selfishness. Selfishness is as fundamentally human as the urge to sleep because it beckons to the functions in our DNA which have ensured our survival. If you adhere to scientific theories such as Natural Selection or various forms of Darwinism, you understand that those who protect themselves, protect their gene pool and in nature protecting one’s gene pool is paramount in a species survival. So in short, the self protects the Self so that it may live another day.
As one’s self breaks down and subsequently reiterates information, the individual will unfortunately pass along all biases, subjections, and flawed logics associated with that person’s comfort zone. That information is full of ego, yet many times the individual is not aware of the problem. Thus not only is their knowledge limited, but rarely does it reap the fruit that they’re attempting to harvest. The most disparaging part about all of this is that it isn’t as easy as “telling” someone that they need to enlighten themselves in order to release the ego, their limited self. Most people cannot readily identify any shortcoming in their mental faculties, therefore telling them only serves to offend and infuriate as is the case in virtually every argument you see or hear about. One person doesn’t like the way that another person spoke to them. They address it. Sparks fly. The problem usually is that both individuals processed the situation from the CPU of the self, the subjectively reviewed the occurrences and subsequently lashed out in a way that promoted themselves.
They acted in ignorance and as we all know, ignorance is in fact bliss. When you can merely act through how you feel at any given time without any extraneous information or excessive thought, you can rationalize virtually anything you want. Ignorance’s wellspring is the self, the ego. It doesn’t care about equality or rationale, only the propagation of what THAT person felt was right or apropos. This is the psyche behind those that cheat on their significant other. Their limited field of vision tells them that its alright to creep, even that they’re entitled to it. That man or woman will then begin coordinating actions internally which prep them for the imminent infidelity, instead of being single and playing the field. Fathers that abandon their children, drug addicts, manipulators, thieves, parasitic pastors, and so on… These are all people that thrive off the self and find ways to exercise the will of their self over others. They take information that is futile, chop it up, then feed it back to the masses as if it were utter truth.
So what is my take home point? That we need to take control of our self. This is the goal of all spiritual walks which are actually pure. Although i myself am a Christian, I respect the paths of other cultures around the world which try to diminish the self and opt for the human to be guided by the spirit. When you process information via your spirit, you begin accessing information and wisdom which is timeless and full of purpose. You let go of the nonsense of this world, political factions and who said what about you, while embracing the Truth which the Lord have woven into every fiber of our being. While the self seeks only the prosper itself, the spirit seeks to propel all mankind and ultimately anything that is alive for good. The information it processes is not petty nor is it divisive.
The last 10 fights or arguments you’ve been in have been because of the self’s incorrect processing of “knowledge”. That unfulfilling relationship you’re tied to right now has to do with the self’s cowardice and insecurity. That person that you can never seem to tolerate because they’re just ridiculous to be around has to do with the self. The problems with your parents, your kids, your cousins, brothers and sisters ALL revolve around the self’s inability to let go of what IT believes is right, regardless of how destructive it may be. To bring this point all the way back around:
THE SELF IS COMPLETELY UNCONCERNED WITH ANYTHING THAT IS OUTSIDE OF WHAT IMMEDIATELY AFFECTS IT
Thus, you will hold on to toxic people, toxic thoughts, and toxic actions until you confront your self and force the mirror upon your eyes. Why do the ignorant prevail? Because ignorant selves enjoy looking at ignorant selves, it enjoys seeing its image. When information passes through the ignorant self’s senses it can kick out whatever the hell it wants and that is just fine with it.
My take home point: you are not always right and what you believe to be right probably doesn’t matter if you haven’t spent time enlightening yourself. Enlightenment is not reading a book. It isn’t watching a movie. It isn’t attending church, mosque, temple or synagogue. Enlightenment is seeking out ways to think about life which are outside your common thought patterns. It is embracing the fact that God created life in a spectrum and the more of that spectrum you understand, the more elegant your personal doctrines will be. Enlightenment knows to color, no guile, no deception. Loving with an enlightened heart is loving your signficant other as if tomorrow was the last day you had on earth.
All of this comes with great responsibility that many people on earth simply don’t want. They want to believe that all Muslims are terrorist and that its okay to meet up with this new guy for drinks if their boyfriend doesn’t know. They want to believe that being rich means having money and that reality TV isn’t the exploitation of banal human desires. They want to believe that God fits completely into their own personal understanding of him and anyone that detracts from what they believe is a heretic or a damnable sinner. They want to believe that dating for sport is acceptable, even if it means that the person they’ve chosen to engage will be hurt indefinitely. They want to lie as if this is an act that is okay. They want wallow in their own decisional filth, instead of accepting the responsibility and the consequences of their actions. They want to live life as if it were some cosmic trial and error and bang shit up as they go.
Don’t get me mistaken, life does require trial and error, but it does not call for the rampant destruction that follows in the wake of an ignorant person. What I want you to take from this is that the world is much bigger than what you, or even I, think. Expand your point of view and you will begin to see places where your self spews ignorance at an alarming clip.
bryce